Forget Me Nots


"Forget Me Nots" is a song by American R&B musician Patrice Rushen, released in April 1982 by Elektra Records as the first single from her seventh album, Straight [from the Heart |Straight from the Heart]. The song is co-written by Rushen with Freddie Washington and Terri McFaddin, and was produced by Rushen. It received very little support from the record label, but became successful on the charts, peaking at No. 23 and 22 on the US Billboard Hot 100 and Cash Box Top 100, as well as No. 8 on the UK Singles Chart. It also earned Rushen her first nomination for Best Female R&B Vocal Performance at the 1983 Grammy Awards. Since its release, the song has been sampled and interpolated in several songs, including "Fastlove" by George Michael in 1996 and "Men in Black" by Will Smith in 1997.

Background

The song was originally declared a flop by executives at Rushen's record label. It took 3 weeks of independent promotion to get the record in front of radio programmers and their audiences. She told in an interview with SoulMusic, "We believed in 'Forget Me Nots' so I took most of my life savings – which was not a lot – and Charles Mims took some of his and we hired an independent promoter to take it and run with it. We had good reason to believe the record company might be wrong. I toured that year also and man, the record took off so fast, faster than ever before and faster than what we expected. 'Forget Me Nots' took off like wildfire."
The bassline is particularly recognizable, and was performed on the record by session bass player Freddie Washington. The tenor saxophone solo was played by Los Angeles session player and recording artist Gerald Albright, who also appears in the music video of the song.
The lyrics are from the point of view of one professing her longing for a rekindling with an ex-lover. In one part of the music video, the girlfriend of the ex turns her attention to another man. As the singer reunites with the ex, they vacate the premises, leaving the now-ex-girlfriend forlorn. She ruminates on the romance's end and sends the lover forget-me-nots, a flower that since medieval times has been given and worn to symbolize enduring love despite absence or separation.

Critical reception

Brandon Ousley from Albumism wrote in his review of Straight from the Heart,

Chart performance

The song peaked at No. 23 on the US Billboard Hot 100 as well as No. 22 on the Cash Box Top 100. It peaked at No. 4 on the Billboard Hot R&B chart and No. 2 on the Billboard Hot Dance chart.
Around the world, the song was also popular. It peaked at No. 19 on the Irish Singles Chart and No. 8 on the UK Singles Chart and in New Zealand.

Impact and legacy

The single's success culminated in Rushen's scoring her first nomination for Best Female R&B Vocal Performance at the 1983 Grammy Awards. In October 2000, VH1 ranked "Forget Me Nots" No. 34 in their 100 Greatest Dance Songs special, and in 2009 the song was ranked No. 85 in their 100 Greatest One-Hit Wonders of the 1980s special. In 2019, NME ranked it among "The 20 Best Disco Songs of All Time". In 1988, it was featured prominently in Big, starring Tom Hanks, and in 2020, it was featured in the No. 1 Netflix movie Fatal Affair, starring Nia Long. In 2024, Forbes ranked it No. 4 in their list of "The 30 Greatest Disco Songs of All Time".

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Cover versions and sampling

The song has been covered directly by several artists.
The song has been sampled frequently, including: