This Be The Verse
This Be the Verse is a poem by the English poet Philip Larkin. It was first published in the August 1971 issue of New Humanist and later included in Larkin’s 1974 collection High Windows. The poem is one of Larkin’s most widely known works and remains notable for its dark humour, directness, and taboo-breaking language.
Text
The poem opens with the line:They fuck you up, your mum and dad,
and concludes with:
Man hands on misery to man. / It deepens like a coastal shelf. / Get out as early as you can, / And don’t have any kids yourself.
The profanity of the first line and the bleak humour of its closing stanza have made the poem one of the most frequently quoted in 20th-century English literature.
Themes and interpretation
The title is taken from a line in Robert Louis Stevenson's 1896 poem "Requiem":"This be the verse you grave for me."Larkin's version turns the sentiment upside down, replacing acceptance with cynical inheritance.
Critics have interpreted the poem as both comic and despairing. According to The Cambridge Companion to Englsh Poets, Larkin "reduces the domestic comedy of human failure to a universal law" while maintaining an ironic tenderness toward his subjects. The poem's conversational tone and metrical precision exemplify Larkin's colloquial modernism—using everyday diction within traditional verse forms.
Reception and legacy
Since its first appearance, This Be the Verse has become one of the most quoted English poems of the 20th century. It continues to appear in anthologies and curricula, though its language has occasionally caused controversy in classroom contexts. Scholars note that despite its cynicism, the poem's metrical control and final imperative lend it an almost moral authority.In popular culture
The poem has appeared in numerous works in media:- Used as the title of Blake Morrison’s memoir They F*** You Up.
- Referenced in essays by Martin Amis and Clive James in 2001.
- The BBC documentary Philip Larkin: Love and Death in Hull features a full reading of the poem.
- Quoted in The End by the character Count Olaf.
- Quoted in Skins by the character Sid Jenkins.
- Quoted in Ted Lasso by the character Mae.
- James McAvoy's character "Paddy" in the 2024 film Speak No Evil quotes the poem.
- Neck Deep's song "They May Not Mean To " is titled after and references the poem.