Lady Margaret Hay
Lady Margaret Katherine Hay , known as Lady Margaret Seymour from 1930–48, was a British aristocrat and courtier from the House of Seymour who was Lady-in-Waiting to Queen Elizabeth II. Her eldest son was one of the Queen's godsons.
Early life and family
Margaret Seymour was born in 1918 in Paddington into an aristocratic family, the daughter of Brig.-Gen. Lord Henry Seymour and Lady Helen Grosvenor. She was an only child until 1930, when a brother, Hugh, was born. The family home was Ragley Hall, Alcester.Her father was the second son of the 6th Marquess of Hertford and Lady Mary Hood, daughter of Alexander Hood, 1st Viscount Bridport. Her mother was the youngest daughter of Hugh Grosvenor, 1st Duke of Westminster by his first wife, Lady Constance Sutherland-Leveson-Gower, daughter of the Duke and Duchess of Sutherland.
Her father died in 1939. The following year, her brother succeeded their uncle, the flamboyant cross-dressing 7th Marquess, when he died without a male heir. In October 1940, King George VI granted her the rank of a daughter of a marquess in honour of her father, who was heir presumptive to his brother.
Career
During the Second World War, Lady Margaret served as a nurse. Following the war, her passion for art led her to take a job at Spink & Son auction house, where she met her future husband.On 1 May 1947, Lady Margaret was appointed Lady-in-waiting to Princess Elizabeth. In 1953, after the princess became queen she continued in her post as Woman of the Bedchamber, the term for the lady-in-waiting to the sovereign. She remained in her position until her death in 1975; at the time of her death, she was the longest serving member of the Royal Household.
Lady Margaret was appointed a Commander of the Royal Victorian Order in the 1953 Coronation Honours and a Dame Commander of the same order in the 1971 New Year Honours.
According to her obituary,
Personal life
On 22 April 1948, she married Alan Philip Hay at Holy Trinity Church in Arrow, Warwickshire. Neville Gorton, the Bishop of Coventry, officiated. They had three sons.- Edward Philip Gerald Hay, godson of Queen Elizabeth II, Duchess of Kent, Sir Steven Runciman, and Gerald Grosvenor, 4th Duke of Westminster
- Andrew Nicholas John Hay, godson of Mrs. Michael Babington Smith and Hon. Patricia Eyres-Monsell Kenward
- Simon Henry Peter Hay, godson of Princess Alexandra Ogilvy, Viscount Cobham, Major-General Michael Alston-Roberts-West, and Lady Alice Egerton