Atika bint Zayd
Atika bint Zayd al-Adawiyya was a 7th-century Islamic scholar and poet. She was a disciple of the Islamic prophet Muhammad. She was also one of the wives of Umar, the second Caliph. Famously, all five of her husbands became shaheed.
Early life
Atika bint Zayd was born, the daughter of Umm Kurz Safiya bint al-Hadrami and Zayd ibn Amr, a member of the Adi clan of the Quraysh in Mecca. Sa'id ibn Zayd was her brother. Their father was murdered in 605.Atika was probably still a child when Muhammad's prophethood began in 610. Sa'id was among the early converts to Islam, and Atika became a Muslim too.
Personal life
Atika married five times in her lifetime.First marriage
Her first husband was her cousin, Zayd ibn al-Khattab, who was at least twenty years older than her. He was also a Muslim, and it was presumably in his company that Atika joined the general immigration to Medina in 622.This marriage apparently ended in divorce, for Atika had already remarried by the time of Zayd's death at the Battle of Yamama in December 632.
Second marriage
Her second marriage was to Abdullah ibn Abi Bakr. It was said that Abdullah deferred to Atika's judgment and spent so much time with her that he was too busy to fight in the Islamic army.Divorce
punished his son by ordering him to divorce her. According to Al-Baladhuri, the reason Abu Bakr ordered the divorce was because Atika was barren. Abdullah did as he was told but was grief-stricken. He wrote poetry for her:nor any woman like her divorced for no fault of her own.
In the end Abdullah was allowed to take Atika back before her waiting period was completed.
Death of Muhammad
When Muhammad died in 632, Atika composed an elegy for him.he used to ride them and he was their adornment.
I have been weeping for the Chief since evening,
and tears are flowing in succession.
Thy wives are still lying in swoons
because of grief that grows greater moment by moment;
they turned pale like a javelin
that becomes useless and changes its colour;
they are remedying chronic sorrow,
but the pain reacts on the heart;
they beat their fine faces with their palms,
for that is what happens at times like this.
He was excellent and the chosen Chief.
Their religion was united on truth.
How can I live longer than the Messenger,
who died at his appointed hour?
Death of Abdullah
Abdullah settled a large amount of property on Atika on the condition that she would not remarry after his death. He died in Medina in January 633 from an old battle wound incurred at the Siege of Ta'if. Atika composed an elegy for him.and my skin will be covered with dust.
She refused several suitors in the following months.
Third marriage
Courtship
, the future second Caliph and Atika's first cousin, told her that she had been wrong to renounce her right to remarry, "denying yourself what God has permitted".The broken vow
After Umar became Caliph, when Aisha learned that Atika had broken her vow of celibacy, she sent her a message:and my skin will be yellow with dye.
Return our property to us!"
When Ali also recited this poem to them, Umar told Atika to return the land. He settled an equivalent sum of money on her, which she distributed in alms to expiate the breaking of her vow to Abd Allah.
Married life
From her marriage to Umar, Atika gave birth to a son named Iyad.Atika asked Umar's permission to attend public prayers at the mosque. Umar preferred his wives to remain at home and expressed his displeasure with silence. Atika told him that she was not going to stop asking permission, and that she would go to the mosque unless he specifically forbade her. He remained silent, presumably because he could not forbid something that Muhammad had permitted, and so Atika continued to attend.
Death of Umar
Atika was present at the mosque when Umar was assassinated there in November 644. She composed elegies for him.and weary not - over the noble chief.
Death hath afflicted me in the fall of a horseman
Distinguished in the day of battle...
someone to trust in times of bad fortune and answering,
whenever he gave his word, his deeds did not belie his word,
swift to good deeds, and not with a frown.
Fourth marriage
Courtship
After Umar's death, Atika married Zubayr ibn al-Awwam. She made it a condition of their marriage contract that he would not beat her, that he would continue to permit her to visit the mosque at will, and that he would not withhold "any of her rights".Death of Zubayr
Zubayr was killed at the Battle of the Camel in December 656. Atika also composed an elegy for him.not shaking with a quivering heart or hand.
You will be lucky to find anyone like him
among those who remain, who come and go...
If you have killed a Muslim, then you must suffer the penalty for murder.
It was at this point that people began to say: "Let a man who wants to be a shahid marry Atika bint Zayd!"
Afterwards, the fourth caliph of Islam Ali himself proposed to her, but she told him, "I would not want you to die, O cousin of the Prophet." Despite that, Ali ended up dying a shaheed anyway, which changed her as well as people's views.