Adriaen van der Goes was the son of Grand Pensionary Aert van der Goes and Margaretha van Banchem. He married Anna Laurensdr. van Spangen, presumably a daughter of Laurens Pietersz van Spangen. They had nine children together, three of whom died young. Their sonsChristiaan, Aert, Andries and Philip all held high offices. The husband of their daughter Maria, Pietervan der Meer, was also a high official.