Stefani Goerlich


Stefani Elizabeth Goerlich, also published as Stefani Barner, is an American author, sexologist, researcher, and relationship counselor. She is an author of books based on academic self-help, sexual, and relational health themes.

Early life and education

Goerlich grew up in Milwaukee. She obtained a bachelor's degree in Human Service from Baker College in 2012, a master's degree in Social Work with a concentration in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy from Wayne State University in 2015, and a post-graduate certificate in Sex Therapy from the University of Michigan's Sex Health Certificate Program in Ann Arbor, Michigan. As of 2025, Goerlich is pursuing a research Ph.D. in social work from Wayne State University. She is a licensed clinical social worker with advanced specialization in forensic social work and an AASECT certified sex therapist.

Work

Goerlich is the founder of Bound Together Counseling in Detroit and an ABS board-certified Diplomate of Sexology. Her conversations with patients include conversations on gender-affirming care. Goerlich has served on the board of American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists and the board of Society for the Advancement of Sexual Health. She is frequently cited in mainstream media on topics such as women’s sexuality, consent and boundary setting, and sexual trauma and mental health. Her work has also been cited in scholarly and professional literature addressing kink, queerplatonic relationships, ethical non-monogamy, and kink-affirming therapy.

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