Sophia May Eckley


Sophia May Eckley was an American poet and spiritualist medium who had a close relationship with the poet Elizabeth Barrett Browning.

Life and career

Eckley was born in Boston, Massachusetts in 1823. Her parents were Edward Francis Tuckerman, III, a wealthy merchant, and Sophia May Tuckerman. Both of her parents came from prominent Massachusetts families. Through her mother, Eckley was a second cousin of Louisa May Alcott and a descendant of the early English colonist John May. Eckley's siblings included the botanist Edward Tuckerman and the poet Frederick Goddard Tuckerman.
In 1848, she married David Eckley, Jr., with whom she had two sons. One of her sons, William, died the year following his birth. In the 1850s, Eckley moved with her family to Florence, Italy.
In 1863, Eckley and her husband separated, and she moved to Paris with her son, David, the following year. Eckley lived in Paris until her death in 1974.

Relationship with Elizabeth Barrett Browning

Eckley met Elizabeth Barrett Browning and her husband, Robert Browning, in 1857, while living in Florence. The women had a close and relationship, with Barrett Browning referring to Eckley as "sister" in several of her letters. Eckley's son David was reportedly friends with Barret Browning's son, Robert.
In 1858, Barrett Browning had a portrait of herself commissioned especially for Eckley.
By 1860, their relationship had cooled. The rift was reportedly caused by a disagreement over the truthfulness of Eckley's claims that she had communicated with the spirits of Barrett Browning's deceased family members.
The relationship between Eckley and Barrett Browning has been studied by several scholars, who consider it important to understanding the role of spiritualism in Barrett Browning's life and work. Much of the surviving correspondence, between Eckley and Barrett Browning can be found in the Berg Collection of the New York Public Library.