Anna Nordberg praised Grose for bringing "a journalist's perspective" to the subject of motherhood in The San Francisco Chronicle. Kim Brooks wrote positively about Grose's argumentation throughout the book but criticized her for not fully examining the systemic issues discussed. Publishers Weekly recommended the book to "mothers struggling to keep their heads above water" and wrote positively about Grose's blend of historical research and personal narrative. Kirkus Reviews praised Grose's prose but criticized her historical analysis as being "more relevant to White, heterosexual, cisgendered mothers." Elaine Margolin was more critical of the book, writing in The New York Journal of Books that Grose's historical analysis was impressive but that the memoir sections often fell flat. Margolin presented Rebecca Solnit and Deborah Levy as points of comparison. Positive reviews of the book were also published in Library Journal and Booklist.