Love or Let Me Be Lonely


"Love or Let Me Be Lonely" is a pop song recorded by the soul group The Friends of Distinction and released as a single in early 1970. The song was a multi-format success, peaking at #6 on the Billboard Hot 100 on May 1, 1970. It also reached #13 on the R&B chart, and #9 on the [Hot Hot Adult Contemporary Tracks|Adult Contemporary Tracks|Adult Contemporary] singles chart.
The song is ranked as No. 63 on the [Billboard Year-End Billboard Hot 100|Hot 100 singles of 1970|Hot 100 singles of 1970].
The song was written by Skip Scarborough, Jerry Peters and Anita Poree. The Friends of Distinction version features Charlene Gibson singing the lead vocals. In the lyrics, the singer is unsure of her future with her love interest. She wants a full commitment; either love her fully or she'd rather be lonely. "Part time love, I can find any day," she sings.

Paul Davis version

The song returned to the charts in the summer of 1982 in a version by American singer-songwriter Paul Davis. It was the third and final single from his 1981 album Cool Night. Davis' version of "Love or Let Me Be Lonely" reached number 40 on the Hot 100. It hit number 11 on the U.S. Adult Contemporary chart.
This would be Davis' final single as the lead artist and last single overall for five years until he was featured on Marie Osmond's "You're Still New to Me", Davis would retire from music altogether in 1988 and died in 2008. As with all tracks on Cool Night, Davis' version was co-produced by Davis himself and keyboardist Ed Seay.

Chart performance

Chart Peak
position
Canada RPM Adult Contemporary29
U.S. Billboard Hot 10040
U.S. Billboard Adult Contemporary11
U.S. Cash Box Top 10041

Sylvie Vartan version (in French)

In August 1970, the song was adapted into French as "La chasse à l'homme" by Gilles Thibault and recorded by French pop singer Sylvie Vartan, who released her version as a non-album single, 5 months after the release of the original Friends of Distinction version. Vartan's version peaked at Number 17 on the French Belgian charts on October 24, 1970.