Elizabeth Herbert, Countess of Pembroke


Elizabeth Herbert, Countess of Pembroke and Montgomery was the second daughter of Charles Spencer, 3rd Duke of Marlborough and Elizabeth Trevor.

Biography

She was born Elizabeth Spencer to Charles Spencer, 3rd Duke of Marlborough and Elizabeth Trevor. Her siblings were George, Charles, and Diana.
In 1756, aged 19, she married Henry [Herbert, 10th Earl of Pembroke]. In 1762, he left her to elope with another woman.
"Husbands are dreadfull and powerful animals," wrote the long-suffering Elizabeth after reconciling with her husband in 1762. She refused to allow his illegitimate son from that affair to keep the surname Herbert, and she and Henry ended up living in separate quarters at Wilton.
She was admired by King George III in the early 1760s, becoming a lady of the bedchamber to Queen Charlotte from 1782 onward. The King and Queen stayed for two nights with Henry and Elizabeth at Wilton House in 1778.
She eventually moved to Pembroke Lodge in Richmond Park in 1788, which King George had put at her disposal. However, the King – who had been attracted to Elizabeth as long as he had known her – suffered his first bout of insanity that same year, and she had to endure the embarrassment of his sporadic and unwanted attentions until his recovery later that year.

In fiction

She features in the movie The Madness of King George played by Amanda Donohoe. The film is set in 1788, so she was in her early 50s at that time, which is much older than she is portrayed in the film. Its mention of a mother-in-law who "lost her wits" is an invention; her mother-in-law, Mary Fitzwilliam, died in 1769. The King introduces her: "Now, that's Lady Pembroke. Handsome woman, what? Daughter of the Duke of Marlborough. Stuff of generals. Blood of Blenheim. Husband an utter rascal. Eloped in a packet-boat." The movie shows the mad King harassing her, but she remaining loyal to him.