It's Okay to Cry


"It's Okay to Cry" is a song recorded by British musician Sophie. It was released on 19 October 2017 as the first single from the artist's debut studio album, Oil of Every Pearl's Un-Insides, accompanied by a music video. This was the first time Sophie's vocals were featured in her work.

Background and release

Early in the artist's career, Sophie was noted for her reclusive nature, rarely giving interviews and using press photos that obscured her appearance. She was widely believed to be a cisgender man and was criticized for "gender appropriation" for drawing from hyperfeminine aesthetics and performing under the name Sophie.
"It's Okay to Cry" and the accompanying music video, both released on 19 October 2017, are the first works by Sophie to feature her own face and voice and were interpreted by many as the artist's first public acknowledgement of her transgender identity.

Reception and legacy

Vice music critic Lauren O'Neill praised "It's Okay to Cry" as a new stylistic direction for Sophie. "It's Okay to Cry" was featured as one of the artist's best songs in lists published by The Guardian and Billboard. Frequent Sophie collaborator Charli XCX included the song "So I" on her 2024 studio album Brat as a tribute to Sophie, with lyrics that refer to "It's Okay to Cry."

Accolades

"It's Okay to Cry" was named one of the best songs of 2017 by Billboard, Dazed, The Fader, The Line of Best Fit, and Vice.
PublicationListRank
Billboard100 best songs of 201792
DazedThe 20 best tracks of 20175
The FaderThe 101 best songs of 201796
The Line of Best FitThe fifty best songs of 201745
ViceThe 100 best songs of 201786

Music video

In the self-directed music video for "It's Okay to Cry", Sophie appears for the first time in the artist's own work, singing in front of the sky as the weather changes.

Personnel

  • Sophie – production, composition, vocals