Frances Shand Kydd
Frances Ruth Shand Kydd was the mother of Diana, Princess of Wales. She was the maternal grandmother of William, Prince of Wales and Harry, Duke of Sussex">Prince Harry, Duke of Sussex">Harry, Duke of Sussex, respectively first and fifth in the line of succession to the British throne. Born into British aristocracy, she was the daughter of Maurice Roche, 4th Baron Fermoy, and Ruth Roche, Baroness Fermoy, a confidante of Queen Elizabeth The Queen Mother. Following her divorce from Viscount Althorp in 1969, and Diana's death in 1997, Shand Kydd devoted her later years to Catholic charity work after converting to Catholicism.
Early life
Frances Ruth Roche was born on 20 January 1936 at Park House, located on the royal estate at Sandringham in Norfolk. Her birth was on the same day as the death of King George V. Her father was Maurice Roche, 4th Baron Fermoy, a friend of King George VI and the elder son of the American heiress Frances Ellen Work and her first husband, the 3rd Baron Fermoy. Her mother, Ruth Roche, Baroness Fermoy, a daughter of Colonel William Smith Gill, was a confidante and lady-in-waiting to Queen Elizabeth. Since birth, she held the style of The Honourable as the daughter of a baron. She was educated at Downham School in Essex.Marriage and children
On 1 June 1954, she married John Spencer, Viscount Althorp, at Westminster Abbey. Queen Elizabeth II and other members of the royal family attended the ceremony. Aged 18, she became the youngest woman to marry at Westminster Abbey since 1893.They had five children:
- Lady Sarah McCorquodale, who married Neil Edmund McCorquodale, a second cousin once removed of her stepmother, Raine, Countess Spencer.
- Lady Jane Fellowes, who married Robert Fellowes, Baron Fellowes, then Private Secretary to the Sovereign.
- The Honourable John Spencer, died within ten hours of his birth
- Diana, Princess of Wales, first wife of Charles III.
- Charles Spencer, 9th Earl Spencer, who married firstly Victoria Lockwood, secondly Caroline Freud, and thirdly, Karen Villeneuve until 2024.
Divorce and remarriage
Her marriage to Viscount Althorp was not a happy one and, in 1967, she left him to be with Peter Shand Kydd, an heir to a wallpaper fortune in Australia, whom she had met the year before. His half-brother was the former champion amateur jockey William Shand Kydd, who was the brother-in-law of John Bingham, 7th Earl of Lucan. Frances lived with her two youngest children, Diana and Charles, in London during the separation in 1967, but during that year's Christmas holidays, Viscount Althorp refused to let his children return to London with their mother. He was granted custody of their children by the courts after his former mother-in-law, Lady Fermoy, testified against her own daughter Frances.Frances and Peter Shand Kydd were married on 2 May 1969 and lived on the Scottish island of Seil, where they bought an 18th-century farmhouse called Ardencaple, 10 kilometres from Oban. She divided her time between London, Seil and another sheep farm in Yass, New South Wales. On 14 July 1976, John Spencer, now the 8th Earl Spencer, married Raine, Countess of Dartmouth, daughter of the novelist Dame Barbara Cartland. Although Frances lived a quiet life, she was thrust into public view following the engagement of her daughter Diana to Prince Charles on 24 February 1981. Frances and her second husband Peter separated in June 1988. In 1993 Peter Shand Kydd married Marie-Pierre Palmer, a French woman who ran a champagne-importing business in London.
Later years
In 1996, she was banned from driving after being convicted of drunk driving, but denied she had a problem with alcohol. She and Diana quarrelled in May 1997, after Frances told Hello! magazine it was "absolutely wonderful" that Diana had lost her title of "Her Royal Highness" following her divorce from Charles. They were reportedly not on speaking terms at the time of Diana's death.She spent her later years in solitude on Seil. She became a Catholic and devoted herself to Catholic charities. She eventually became involved with The Hosanna House and Children's Pilgrimage Trust, the Royal National Mission for Deep Sea Fishermen, the Mallaig and Northwest Fishermen's Association, and the National Search and Rescue Dogs Association.
In October 2002, when Frances left her Scottish home to give testimony at the trial of Diana's former butler, Paul Burrell, burglars targeted her house and stole her jewellery.