First lady
First Lady or First Gentleman is a title used in some countries, especially presidential republics, most often for the spouse of the head of state. Occasionally another relative may be designated in the role, especially for unmarried or widowed officeholders. The term may also be used for the spouses of mayors, governors, et cetera.
In Anglophone countries, the term is primarily associated with the United States, however the title has also occasionally been used to refer to the spouse of a head of government in some commonwealth countries. The traditional duties and social function of the role of First Lady in many ways echo the role of a queen consort in countries with a monarchy.
Outside of the US, the role is most often found in Latin American countries.
The term First Lady has also seen figurative use to describe a person seen to be at the top of her profession or craft, and is sometimes used in some Christian churches in the United States for the wives of Christian pastors in denominations.
History
It has been noted that the earliest use of the term "first lady" is in reference to person of a high ranking or outstanding person in their field, and that the term, as used to describe the spouse of the president of the United States, saw its first documented use in 1838 in reference to Martha Washington, who was never referred to as such during George Washington's time as president.The first person to have been referred to as "first lady" on a regular basis during their time in the position was Harriet Lane, who was actually James Buchanan's niece, as Buchanan was a lifelong bachelor.
Variations
The male equivalent of the title in countries where the head of state's spouse has been a man, such as the Philippines or Malta, is first gentleman. "First gentleman" is also used in the United States for the male spouse of a mayor or governor.First spouse and first partner, both rare variations of the title, can be used in either case where the spouse of a political leader is of any gender. This term is used to promote gender equality and gender neutrality.
In the United States, collectively, the president of the United States and his spouse are known as the first couple and, if they have children, they are usually referred to as the first family.
Use in non-English speaking countries
-speaking countries have used the term première dame for first ladies, regardless of where the first lady is from. At least one article, published in 2017, used the term premier monsieur for first gentleman. For that particular article, it was used to discuss the possibility of Louis Aliot becoming first gentleman, should his domestic partner, Marine Le Pen, win that year's presidential election. Emmanuel Macron defeated Le Pen in that year's election.Portuguese-speaking countries have used the term primeira-dama or "Primeira Dama" for first ladies. The term is used regardless of where the person is from. The term primeiro-cavalheiro is used for first gentlemen.
In Spanish-speaking countries, the term primera dama is used for first ladies, regardless of the country the person is from. The term primer caballero has been used for first gentlemen.
Sinophone countries have used the term 第一夫人 as a term for first ladies, also without regards as to where the first lady is from.
Europe
Czech Republic
The term první dáma is used for wife of the president of the Czech Republic.Poland
The term pierwsza dama is used by the wife of the current president of Poland.Russia
Foreign press reports have referred to the wife of the Russian president as first lady. Russian first ladies have been less visible than their western counterparts due to historical reasons.Soviet Union
It has been noted that Soviet leaders generally preferred to keep their wives and families out of the spotlight, resulting in "invisible first ladies". As a result, low-profile first ladies remain common in post-Soviet countries, due to the leaders of those countries having grown up during the Soviet era.The wife of Mikhail Gorbachev, Raisa Gorbachev, has been referred to as a Soviet first lady.
Ukraine
The wife of the country's president has been referred to as перша леді by the country's government. The term "first lady" has also been used by the government in English language news releases.While some first ladies, like Maryna Poroshenko and Olena Zelenska, have played a role in social activism, other first ladies, like Lyudmila Yanukovych, have rarely taken part in public roles.
Asia
Armenia
The wife of the president of Armenia has been referred to as "Հայաստանի Առաջին տիկին". The term "first lady" has also been used. The spouse of the current president, however, is only referred to as "հանրապետության նախագահի տիկին", or "wife of the president of Armenia".India
is the title given to the host of the Rashtrapati Bhavan, usually the spouse of the president of India. There are no official roles or duties assigned to the spouse. The Spouse generally attends official ceremonies, functions & accompanies the president on his or her official international tour.Indonesia
The term ibu negara and bapak negara is used for wife of the president of Indonesia. The term is also used to refer to first ladies of other countries.Iran
Before the 1979 revolution there was the queen Shahbano. There is no office of first lady or first female. In September 2023 the Iranian wife of the president denied news of being the first lady and said that actually the wife of the supreme leader of the revolution is the first lady. The minister of foreign relations also said the same thing. The wife of the supreme leader remains hidden, and there exists no image of her.Japan
In Japan, the term Naikaku Souri Daijin Fujin is the title used for the wife of the prime minister of Japan.Vietnam
Currently, the spouse of the President of Vietnam is called phu nhân chủ tịch nước. The term đệ nhất phu nhân is also unofficially used by the press and on social media. The most prominent and highest position in Vietnam is the general secretary of the Communist Party of Vietnam and the spouse of the officeholder is considered the authentic first lady of Vietnam.Central America
Costa Rica
The wife or husband of the president of Costa Rica is called Primera dama o Primer caballero de Costa Rica. The term was first used under Federico Alberto Tinoco Granados. The office and officeholder rely on private donations, rather than on official funding from the government budget, to cover its expenses.Marita Camacho Quirós, First Lady from 1962 to 1966 during the presidency of Francisco Orlich Bolmarcich, was 114 years and 102 days old when she died, making her the oldest First Lady in history.
Non-spousal uses
In some situations, the title is bestowed upon a non-spouse.Australia
Following the leadership spill which installed Julia Gillard as the first female prime minister of Australia on June 24, 2010, some news media referred to her partner, Tim Mathieson, as the "first bloke". The Australian Government has referred to Mathieson as Gillard's partner, and has also recognized him as a prime ministerial spouse.Bolivia
, the former president of Bolivia, is single, so during his presidency his sister, Esther Morales, fulfilled the role of first lady.Chile
, the domestic partner and girlfriend of Gabriel Boric, accepted the title of first lady despite both Karamanos and Boric's initial opposition to the position's existence. Karamanos said that taking on the role would involve "adapting it to the times." She suppressed the role at the end of 2022.Ireland
During the first half of Bertie Ahern's term as Taoiseach, he was separated from his wife Miriam and the role of first lady was filled by his then domestic partner, Celia Larkin.Republic of Korea (South Korea)
During the last five years of Park Chung Hee's time as president, his daughter, Park Geun-hye, served as first lady following her mother, Yuk Young-soo's death. She has been regarded as a de facto first lady of South Korea by some modern sources.Peru
took over the duties of first lady at the age of 19, after the divorce of her father Alberto Fujimori and her mother Susana Higuchi.Philippines
was a widower when he assumed the presidency since his wife was killed during World War II, and as such, he appointed his daughter, Victoria Quirino-Gonzalez to serve as first lady and hostess of Malacañang Palace.Benigno Aquino III had never married throughout his presidency, so Palace staff take over duties traditionally reserved for the first lady, such as organising state dinners and entertaining guests.
Rodrigo Duterte had been previously married to Elizabeth Zimmerman until filing for an annulment in 2000, he has since been in a relationship with Honeylet Avanceña. When he was elected in 2016, he announced his daughter Sara would become the first lady, she would later decline the offer to focus on her duties as Mayor of Davao City. The position would go on to be vacant throughout his presidency, as Duterte had not designated someone to be the first lady.
United States
was a widower by the time he took office as president, and his daughter, Martha Jefferson Randolph, who served as the lady of the president's house on occasion, has been recognized by the First Ladies National Historic Site as being a first lady, even though the White House website recognizes her mother, Martha Jefferson, as first lady. While Dolley Madison also served as hostess and Jefferson's escort on occasion, she is recognized as a spousal first lady by way of her husband's presidency following Jefferson.Andrew Jackson's wife, Rachel Jackson, died before Jackson's presidency. Jackson's niece, Emily Donelson, carried out the duties of first lady until her death, and Jackson's daughter-in-law, Sarah Jackson, presided over the White House during the final months of Jackson's presidency. Both are recognized by the First Ladies National Historic Site as being first ladies, despite the White House website recognizing Jackson's wife as first lady.
James Buchanan was a lifelong "bachelor". During his time in office, his niece, Harriet Lane, served as "hostess". She is recognized as having acted in the capacity of a contemporary first lady during her uncle's time in office, and is listed among other spousal first ladies on the White House website.