Acontius
Acontius in ancient Greek and Roman mythology is a beautiful youth from the Aegean island of Ceos, known for his love story in which he falls hopelessly in love with the maiden Cydippe, and implores a trick in order to get her to marry him in the eyes of the gods.
The myth is of Hellenistic origin and first appearing in the works of Alexandrian poet Callimachus, though made known thanks to its inclusion in Ovid's Double Heroides. Several other authors also recounted the tale.
Etymology
The youth's name Ἀκόντιος is the masculine form of the ancient Greek common noun ἀκόντιον, which translates to javelin. It is the diminutive form of ἄκων, meaning the same thing.Mythology
According to the tale, Acontius was a very good-looking man from Ioulis in Ceos born to respectable but not rich parents. He arrived at Delos on the occasion of a festival in honour of Apollo. It was there that Eros shot him with an arrow and made him fall in love with the beautiful Cydippe of Naxos or Athens, who had come with her family and slaves to offer incense and wine. Accontius then took an apple from the garden of Aphrodite and inscribed the words 'By Artemis, I will marry Acontius' on it, and threw it at her feet. When Cydippe picked up the apple from the ground she read the words out loud, sealing the promise. None the wiser, Cydippe simply discarded the apple and ignored the incident.Acontius' love for Cydippe tormented him, as he suffered sleepless nights and isolated himself in the farmlands and vineyards, trying to avoid his father and writing her name on the barks of trees. Cydippe meanwhile was promised to someone else, and preparations began for her wedding. But when she entered the bridechamber, a terrible disease befell her, which almost killed her, and thus the wedding was delayed. Ovid has the ardent lover stealthily follow the slaves to ask about Cydippe's condition.
When Cydippe finally recovered the wedding plans continued as usual, but for a second time the moment she entered the bridechamber she fell gravely ill for seven months, and after that this happened for a third time as well. Her father consulted the oracle of Apollo, who informed them that his sister was not going to let Cydippe marry anyone but the one she had given a vow to.
When her father returned, Cydippe recounted to him the incident at the Delian temple. Thus Acontius and Cydippe were joined in marriage bonds in Naxos, and through their happy marriage they became ancestors of the Acontiadae tribe.
Culture
The oldest source this tale appears in is Callimachus' third book of the fragmentary Aetia, who attributed the tale to Xenomedes, a writer who recorded a lot of local Keian lore and tradition. The story is a genealogical aition for the people of Ioulis, a city which was founded by the line of Acontius.In ancient Greek culture the apple, the instrument Acontius uses to secure his marriage to Cydippe, was the most important fruit symbol of Aphrodite, as the emblem of her victory in the beauty contest against Hera and Athena, and thus became "the love token par excellence". Apples were common love-gifts, but apparently Cydippe did not realise it.
An almost identical tale was also said about the youths Ctesylla and Hermochares, whose tale was preserved by Antoninus Liberalis. However, in this version Ctesylla eventually dies in childbirth due to the oathbreaking.